Statement of Archbishop Sean P. O'Malley on same-sex marriages
It is with deep sadness that we will realize this Monday the creation of same-sex marriages here in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. The Catholic Church remains committed to the truth that marriage is a unique bond between a wife and a husband, a bond which is the bedrock and foundation of our families and society. Our stand for the defense of marriage is motivated by a deep conviction concerning the common good of all citizens. Marriage is given special protections and benefits in law because it is the institution which best provides for the procreation and the raising of children. The creation of a right to same-sex marriage in the end will not strengthen the institution of marriage within our society but only weaken it as marriage becomes only one life-style choice among many others. Our hope is that at some point in the very near future, our legislators will enact laws to protect the unique benefit to society that the marital bond creates and the good that this bond produces for children.
At the same time, I remind all Catholics that our sadness at what has happened should not lead us into anger against or vilification of any group of people, especially our homosexual brothers and sisters. Our task as Christs disciples is to build a civilization of love. We must see each person as an irreplaceable gift from God. Each time we pray the Lords Prayer we begin Our Father, reminding us that as Gods children we are brothers and sisters of all. That does not mean that we must endorse everyones opinion or accept everyones behavior, but it does mean that we must care about each other, to be concerned about each others well-being, spiritual as well as material. As in all things, charity must mark us as a people of God and inform our actions.