Is your Facebook feed as filled with "equal" signs as mine? I hope so. This week is Passover, which makes it a beautiful time to focus on social justice and families and what it means to live tradition, not let tradition choke the life out of us.
That said, I must object to this:
Bert and Ernie are not gay.
Peppermint Patty and Marcie are gay--sweet fancy Moses, are Peppermint Patty and Marcie gay--but not Bert and Ernie.Bert and Ernie are fundamentally good people who are too socially dysfunctional to form romantic relationships. Maybe they are queer, but not for each other. And that's an important message too. Kids grow up in a Noah's-Ark world.Little gay kids need to look out into the world and see themselves reflected, and so do little weird kids. Bert and Ernie showed that even awkward, unromantic people can aspire to a joyful domestic life. That you didn't have to find a prince to live happily ever after--just a pal. Marriage equality is important, but so is the equality of non-marriage: of friendship, of solitude.
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