Witty advice columnist Abigail Van Buren (Pauline Phillips), who along with twin Ann Landers (Eppie Lederer) revolutionized the "agony aunt" industry, died this week at 94. Salon has a collection of some of her sharpest replies, including
DEAR ABBY: I have always wanted to have my family history traced, but I can?t afford to spend a lot of money to do it. Any suggestions? -- Sam in CAL
DEAR Sam: Yes. Run for public office.
You are like the ostrich, the foolish bird which thinks it is wholly concealed when it gets its neck under a branch. Or like small children, who hold their hands in front of their eyes and seeing nobody imagine that no one sees them either. In general, you are so stupid that it makes one feel like vomiting.
I'm going to guess that the insults hurled at this local baby shower were less abstruse:
A baby shower went badly wrong in a Stoughton hall late last night, when a single sucker punch apparently set off a bottle-bashing, chair-smashing brawl between as many as 200 people -- with a mob surrounding the cops who were urging parents to get their kids out of there, authorities said.
"The behavior was appalling. It was absolutely appalling. There's just no other way to put it," Stoughton Police Executive Officer Robert Devine told the Herald this afternoon.
If that is not one heck of a premise for an improv sketch, I don't know what is.
I watched both "Dumbo" (now streaming on Netflix!) and the 2011 movie "Water for Elephants" this week. As a look at circus life during the Great Depression, "Dumbo" is about a million times more emotionally devastating. The clique of female elephants who pick on Mrs. Jumbo are a much more psychologically realistic portrayal of collaborating with an abusive, patriarchal environment does to a woman's character than Reese Witherspoon's (radiant!) Marlena. And check out the workmen's song:
We don't know when we get our pay
And when we do we throw our pay away ...
That's some dark stuff.
Finally, Naturalizer, I love you, but just ...
... no. Words have meanings, Naturalizer.
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