A theme in this year's holiday advice, it seems, is to be willing to change up traditions in order to make them work for your life. (I loved this piece of advice that a friend of Kara Baskin's offered on Facebook: "Do everything that could become a chore (shopping, sending christmas cards, hanging lights outside, decorating the christmas tree) by December 1. After December 1 just do stuff you want to do. Maybe there will be things that don't get done but at least you get to enjoy the holiday season.")
One of the best ways to signal -- to yourself and to other people -- that the holidays are going to be different is with a non-traditional Christmas tree. I am loving some of the creative versions that are out there. The Christmas tree of books, of course, is a perfect solution for the typical Boston bibliophile or graduate student.
I also really, really like Post-it Christmas trees. They take up no space, are inexpensive (free, if you work in an office with a well-stocked supply closet and lax procedures!), and there's something about them that tolls a Pavlovian bell in my mind that says This Is What Christmas Is All About. I suppose it's the connection between Christmas and craft paper that goes deep into my pre-K memories.
A Facebook friend posted this, and I don't know where it's from, but I like it very much.
Have you ever done an alternative Christmas tree? Or a deliberately sad little Charlie Brown tree? I used to do those, in my pre-married, pre-Jewish life (what I fondly recall as the "Shiksa in the City" years). Because we didn't have the internet back then to teach us all the clever, kitschy alternatives.
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