Discovered a good new blog recently called "Surviving the Workday" that covers issues of spirituality in the workplace. Not in some fundamentalist "convert your co-workers" or grody New-Age "let's burn a smudge stick to purify your new cubicle" way--the blog's author, "Ms. Theologian," describes its mission thus:
Spirituality is notoriously difficult to define. I’ve settled on a definition of spirituality as the integration of the whole person, meaning body, mind, and soul ...
The workplace is where you spend your day whether it’s caring for a child or aging parent at home in the country or work with numbers in a tall office building in the city (or anywhere in between). Tom Wayman, the Canadian work poet, said that, “Work is anything that we do that makes the world go round.” I think that’s right.
So spirituality in the workplace is the of integration of the whole person into your daily life.
I received an e-mail that in its entirety said: "Be advised that your cubicle is now E-15," with the signature block of the administrator — no greeting and no cheery goodbye. Now, I understand the need to move people around, and E-15 is a bigger cube with a window view so I'm not complaining about the move. Am I right to be peeved by the tone of the message?
Yes, I think so (as do the columnist and Ms. Theologian). As Ms. T. points out, it's just such a very weird way of communicating. You'd never say something like that to someone's face. There's a line to be walked in business communication--especially in e-mail, a medium for which protocols have yet to be developed--between the stilted and dehumanizing and the inappropriately chummy. But it's not a dangerously thin line--more like a nice low balance beam than a high wire. Would it have killed the writer of the above e-mail to have addressed the recipient by name, expressed some thanks for cooperation, or apology for the inconvenience, or congratulations on moving into the cushier E-15?
If you're worried about your own e-mail style, Send by David Shipley and Will Schwalbe is the book you need. I got a reviewer's copy shortly before it came out, and thought, "How much can there really be to say about this?" Then one night I ran out of things to read and picked it up, and discovered it was delightful and really got at the oddities of that particular communication medium, like the counterintuitive way that "please" in an e-mail can sometimes make a request sound MORE commanding and condescending, not less.
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