The master networker

Steve DiFillippo’s recipe for his Davio’s brand includes a large portion of celebrity schmoozing

Davio's owner Steve DiFillippo. Davio's owner Steve DiFillippo. (Essdras M Suarez/Globe Staff)
By Bella English
Globe Staff / August 6, 2011

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Mark Wahlberg drops in. Tom and Gisele, too. Mick Jagger and Sting have stopped by. Bruce Springsteen adores the Philly Cheese Steak spring rolls. Oprah came in with a party of 30.

Davio’s restaurant is also a magnet for athletes. People still talk about the time the Yankees and Red Sox both ended up there - Joe Torre spoke to Trot Nixon, but that was it. More recently, the Vancouver Canucks ate there before games 3 and 6 of the Stanley Cup finals.

Davio’s Northern Italian Steakhouse is one of a handful of restaurants in Boston that regularly appear in gossip columns announcing which bold-facers ate what there. Sure, the food garners raves. Yes, it’s in a prime Park Square location. Celebs who stay at the Four Seasons simply walk over, sometimes on the recommendation of the hotel concierge.

And no, in case you’re wondering, their meals aren’t comped.

“They always pay,’’ says owner Steve DiFillippo, 50. “We don’t have any of those issues. What they like is the privacy.’’

DiFillippo guards their privacy fiercely, even stationing a manager near celebrity tables to keep others away. Staff will be suspended or even fired if they ask for an autograph. You’ll see no famous photos on the wall here; DiFillippo considers that “tacky.’’

DiFillippo, who loves sports and music, long ago learned how to turn those loves into guests.

He has made friends in high places. It was at the request of his close friends Robert and the late Myra Kraft that he opened a Davio’s at Patriot Place in Foxborough three years ago. Members of the extended Kraft family have long dined at Davio’s, and team members also go there.

“I think virtually all players love steak and love Italian food, so it’s a natural,’’ says Jonathan Kraft, president of the New England Patriots. “They get their proteins and their carbs and the portions are big, which is something our players like.’’

As a music fan, DiFillippo has always accommodated musicians, who sometimes are the first ones in and the last ones out. “Davio’s gave us the space to let our hair down and be relaxed and loose after coming off the road,’’ says Peter Wolf, lead singer for the J. Geils Band. Wolf remembers Davio’s in the early days when it was “bumper-to-bumper with different bands, radio jocks, and media people.’’

In 1985 when he was 24 years old, DiFillippo opened the original Davio’s on Newbury Street. In 2002, he relocated to Park Square. Now there are three more Davio’s: in Foxborough, Atlanta, and Philadelphia. And he owns Avila, also in Park Square.

DiFillippo is a master networker who has worked hard to “brand,’’ as he puts it, the Davio’s name. To that end, he has created a line of frozen Davio’s spring rolls, which sell by the millions in grocery stores throughout the country, and he recently became the culinary correspondent for “styleboston’’ on WCVB-TV (Channel 5).

“The more I get on TV, the more branding I can do,’’ says DiFillippo, who lives in Wenham. “I’m just constantly thinking about new ideas.’’

Carolyn Fox, contributing editor at the Improper Bostonian, says Davio’s attracts athletes and others because it’s a “winning combination of steak house and Italian.’’ She also credits DiFillippo’s outgoing personality for drawing people in.

DiFillippo enforces a strict privacy policy. No one - staff or other guests - is allowed to ask for autographs or approach a table as a fan. He recently suspended a food runner for asking a Brazilian star athlete for his autograph. No one is allowed to snap photos.

“When Mick Jagger was here, he ate in peace, though there was a little frenzy when he left,“ DiFillippo says. He also keeps track, via computer, of where his regulars - famous or not - like to sit and what they like to eat.

Trot Nixon first took Red Sox slugger Kevin Youkilis to Davio’s in 2004, and it quickly became Youkilis’s favorite spot.

“Great food and great service is always the key to an athlete’s heart,’’ Youkilis says. “Steve being a great host and a great guy is what makes him so successful. He is always smiling, laughing, and cracking jokes.’’ The two have become good friends.

Former Patriots star Tedy Bruschi has been going to Davio’s for a decade. Before he has even ordered his meal, a plate of Philly Cheese Steak rolls will appear. “I always go in for them, so they just bring them to me,’’ Bruschi says. He also knows he can eat without interruption.

But Davio’s does not mind publicizing a celebrity visit after the fact.

“The staff will e-mail us and let us know, and we will submit it for consideration [in the press],’’ says publicist Joanna Roffo of Regan Communications, which has represented Davio’s for five years. “People read that and they want to be there, too. We don’t have many celebrities in Boston, so it adds a little clout.’’

DiFillippo says he has mixed feelings about the practice “It’s a funny thing. You want your restaurant to be in the news, but you can’t publicize everyone. There are a lot of local [well-known] people we don’t publicize.’’

George Regan, the public relations maven who often dines at Davio’s, says the task of calling for reservations for others, mostly executives, often falls to him. “Steve’s got a huge presence in a small city,’’ Regan says. “People want reservations there, big time. The only person I know who doesn’t go there is Whitey Bulger.’’

Though DiFillippo doesn’t comp his guests - unless it’s a friend he’s meeting for lunch or dinner - he does donate to their causes.

In 2008 he spent 10 days in Israel with the Krafts; this year he attended a seder at their home. In 2009 he and Regan visited the Polish death camps. Last year, after raising $500,000 for the Anti-Defamation League of New England, he received its Torch of Liberty award. He is the current vice chairman of the organization.

Hot restaurants get hit up constantly for charitable causes. DiFillippo won’t say no to customers he’s friendly with, like Youkilis’s Hits for Kids Foundation.

“Anyone who does anything for kids, sign me up,’’ says DiFillippo. He gives to cancer causes because both his brother and father had cancer. He supports hunger relief and his sister’s charity, Raising a Reader.

He says he donates to both political parties. “In this business, I have to be independent,’’ he says. One night, Mitt Romney was in for dinner; the next, Governor Deval Patrick. “I tell people I’m Switzerland, neutral.’’

Unlike some of his competitors, DiFillippo is not a celebrity chef. His degree is in business from Boston University. He grew up cooking with his Portuguese mother and Italian father, though he kept it quiet.

“This was way before any men were cooking,’’ he says. “There wasn’t an Emeril Lagasse or Wolfgang Puck or Jacques Pepin. As captain of the football team [at Lynnfield High School], it just wasn’t something I talked about.’’

After college, he attended Cambridge School of Culinary Arts, but he leaves the cooking to his chefs Eric Swartz and Steve Brown, who have been with him almost since the beginning.

DiFillippo, whose four children range in age from 11 to 23, says he grew up with a father who always brought people home for dinner and a mother who accommodated the last-minute crowd. His oldest son is a Boston University student who volunteers at Community Servings. His daughter is working on a master’s degree in social work.

When he interviews young people for a job, the first question he asks is, “What do you do for charity?’’ His advice: “Find something you’re good at and donate your time.’’ Of those who don’t volunteer, he says: “It drives me crazy.’’

Wayne Lebeaux of Framingham, who works as a manager or assistant for various entertainers, has been going to Davio’s for years. He always eats the same thing: chicken parmesan. He also brings his clients there: Ringo Starr, Springsteen, David Crosby, the members of the rock band KISS, and others. “Because it’s private and the food is so freaking good,’’ says Lebeaux, who was the inspiration for Davio’s Chicken Parm spring roll; he’s even credited on the box.

Once, Springsteen asked DiFillippo to teach his personal chef how to make the Philly Cheese Steak spring rolls.

“I said no, because they are copyrighted,’’ DiFillippo recalls. “He thought I was kidding, but I said, ‘Bruce, they really are.’ ’’

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